Lincoln And Thanksgiving
It is easy to be thankful, to feel gratitude when we get good news.
You got the job!”
Your tests came back and showed no cancer!”
The baby is healthy!”
In those moments, and so many like them, we give a short prayer of Thanksgiving. But do we remember to be thankful when times are hard? Â I say that’s the appropriate time to be grateful for all we have been given and optimistic that our strengths will carry us through our trials!
Abraham Lincoln had one of the most unique minds of any American. He saw things that few others could see. In the worst of times, Lincoln remained optimistic, and in the best of times, he kept himself grounded. His decision to begin what we know as the modern celebration of Thanksgiving is an example of his profound insights into man, the mind, and our relationship with God.
Most Americans have a general sense of Thanksgiving beginning as a celebration between Pilgrims and Native Americans (Wampanoag) in 1621. Many people don’t realize that the first Thanksgiving day did not lead to an annual event. Between the 1620s and the 1860s, Thanksgiving days were occasionally proclaimed by governors, legislatures, and even the federal government. But none led to our modern celebration. Thanksgiving was banned In some southern areas because of its association with the Pilgrim faith.
Beginning in 1846, a brilliant author and editor, Sarah Hale, wrote letters to every president, urging the creation of a national Thanksgiving Day. Her requests fell on deaf ears until Abraham Lincoln received a letter from her. Lincoln was a man of deep spiritual feeling who had overwhelming faith in God and a belief in prayer. He often thought about the relationship between everyday events and God’s intent. When Lincoln received the letter, her reasoning resonated with him. He recognized that even amid the bloodiest year of the bloodiest war in American history, there was so much for Americans to be grateful about. That even as men were dying to end the abomination of slavery, as families were being torn apart and children were being left without their fathers, there was still much to be celebrated in American life. Crops were still being harvested, factories were still working, our boundaries were being expanded, and people continued to enjoy the everyday blessings of life. Children were born, weddings occurred, promotions were received, school exams were passed.
It may seem counterintuitive for Lincoln to declare a national Day of Thanksgiving amid the carnage of the Civil War, but Lincoln’s thinking was often counterintuitive. He saw the big picture. Lincoln understood the need for perspective. And he deeply felt the need for gratitude in our lives. In 1863 he set aside the last Thursday of November for Thanksgiving day. From that year on, Americans have been urged to put aside one day every year to simply be grateful. Lincoln and Thanksgiving were a natural fit.
Our society seems to have developed a collective case of attention deficit disorder. It is physically challenging for many people to simply sit through a movie in a theater or attend a Broadway play without turning on their cell phones. We have a hard time living in the present moment. And nowhere is that more evident than on Thanksgiving day.
Thanksgiving sits between two holidays that have been morphed into consumer-driven days of giving and getting: Halloween and Christmas. Halloween is a day for make-believe and for demanding treats. Christmas, despite its religious overtones, has become a consumerist frenzy. And what happens to Thanksgiving? Americans want to rush through it, check it off the list of things to do before they begin shopping again. More and more stores open on Thanksgiving, ignoring the real meaning of the day and ignoring the real needs of their employees. Why can’t we express gratitude on Thursday and wait until Friday to shop?
Abraham Lincoln would be appalled.
So should we all.
In a sense, everything you have was given to you by someone else. If you work hard to pass a test, someone taught you how to pass that test, taught you how to read, and provided you with the time, security, and space you needed to study. If you worked hard to create a business, so many other people contributed to your success, did they not? If you work hard and save your money to buy a car, it is probably because somebody gave you a job, believed in you, gave you money, found some way to put you in a position where you could save money without needing it to simply survive. Are you grateful?Â
He saw a day of reflection and gratitude turned into a day of obligation, football, and food without remembering thankfulness. Lincoln and Thanksgiving have something more important to say to us.
Thanksgiving deserves your attention. If only for a few hours one Thursday every year, take the time to appreciate and give thanks for all that is before you, even in times of trial, like Lincoln.
Lincoln and Thanksgiving.
Right on!
Well put and oh so true.
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Thank you, Barry, for sending on this brief article. Quite interesting and thought provoking.
Thanks, Barry, for your timely reminder of how much we take for granted.
Barry, Just reading this made me pause to consider all those who have made me who I am.
My goodness, I can’t remember how I found your blog, or when I added you to my sidebar, but this morning, after being away from blogging for quite some time, discovering it was a gift. So many thoughts about Abraham Lincoln left their mark on my day. Thank you!
I absolutely love your blog! Thank you for the kind words!
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Thank you Barry for this wonderful reflection on Thanksgiving. It would be great if no stores were open. I often think about how grateful I am for what I have on days other than the third Thursday in November!
Donna,
I am so glad you enjoyed it. I think contentment and grated are a great way to spend at least one day a year – we should be able to spend at least one day a year without wanting more.
Thank YOU for this well spoken reminder of the reason and history for this holiday! Our family is indeed blessed for the abundance and peace in our lives thanks to the many we know and don’t know! My Thanksgiving Day Grace and Toast will include those sentiments!
Excellent, inspirational, educational, like everything you do and stand for, THANK YOU so much.
Adriana,
Thank you so much for your kind words – much appreciated!
Barry
Thanks for the eye opening blog, appreciate, looking forward to more classes
I want to know: WHY NOVEMBER? It would be better in late Feb or in March. Too close to Christmas/New Year.
Hi!
November was chosen as being after the fall harvest was done!
BB
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Hi Barry,
I have enjoyed your variety of presentations over the years from sit coms, western movies, to politics – itâs great that you offer such eclectic possibilities!
I really have nothing else to add to comments above with regard to the article – I agree whole heartedly! I did learn a few historical ânuggetsâ that I was unaware of.
I work in the mental health field in a psychiatric hospital – âgratitudeâ is something is something we often talk to patients about – as you said for perspective & a source of strength
I agree with a comment above & what you mentioned about âCultural ADDâ – it would certainly help all of us if retail were closed on Thanksgiving – I imagine it might help us all âfocusâ on above.
Thanks for all you do,
David
David,
Thank you for your kind comments and let me express gratitude for the work you do. It’s very difficult and very important!
I agree with you that retail should be closed on thanksgiving. But more and more, Black Friday is taking place online. Our need for instant gratification is completely overwhelming our sense of gratitude.
Barry